General Chat

My remark about dirty old women is because i get fed up hearing women say "dirty old men",
what about the women who pay men for their services.?
A few years back, before my accident I worked a few evenings as a doorman at a club (bouncer ) if you like to earn extra money.,
I have seen the antics of some women, not much different to men.

....and a chastity belt ;-)

TW I can understand that if my OH wanted to go to a club with his mates I would say yes fine okay have fun but keep it in your trousers etc but I would be asleep in wyncyette PJ's when he got home. lol

lol I wish I could have phrased it better but you get the gist!

Sue x

That last post was a bit of a tangent. Sue, I know what you're trying to say, about the men going home to their wives that is.

Sue that was my second side of things was how many innocent women at home got abused because of the titallation that their men had been watching.

but if the legal clubs were not there then they would find illegal activities somewhere.

and sorry to say but there are deprived females out there.

While I was still married, my ex went on a stag night where there were strippers and dancers...and he came home wound up sky high, completely 'turned on'.

He couldn't understand why I said no, he just didn't get that if it's not ME thats turned him on I don't want to know. LOL

Awwwwwww......thank you Hayley :-)

I don't have an OH so don't have that problem but wouldn't be impressed if I did have one and he went to one. In fact I'd probably lose some respect for him.

They seem to be popular on stag nights and it makes me wonder just how much imagination some men have if that's all they could think of to do on one.

George I didn't ogle male strippers, they were either worth looking at or they weren't. if they not I go to go to the bar and collect ice

Have to disagree with George, I actually don't know of any dirty old women ogling at male strippers. Men getting their kit off is just too funny for words, absolutely no sexual titilation there! Dirty old men (and yes there are some) getting 'het up' and then demanding their wife/partner to perform after they have been aroused at a club or by viewing pornography is despicable. I am not speaking from personal experience rather via a third party.

I know what I am trying to say but having trouble...lol

Sue x

I wouldn't be interested in that sort of hen night, George. Semi-naked, overly oiled, steroid enhanced, brain-dead blokes have never been a turn on for me.

The most important sexual organ is the brain. Intelligence is far more of a turn on than brawn.

Gwynne

Yeah Teresa obviously didnt think we were that bright pmsl

As I said there are 2 sides to this and a very good thread

By the way I kept my top on also, I have been to see male strippers and highly amusing it was too, on a girly night out.

Hayley I don't know if they still have disco's cos it was sooo long ago but they do in Spain lol

A bit like those dirty old women who go to ogle at the strippers at hen night as say, It was just for a bit of fun......my a^^e

How do you 'accidentally' go into a lapdancing club? It's clear enough outside what they are isn't it?

If my OH went in to one it wouldnt bother me but if he went and didnt tell me it would, I found it more alarming when a couple of women I used to know went in to one, as much as they tried to declare it was an accident I found it very very strange, aww well it takes all sorts.. ~~~~~~~~~~ Julie Cat I have missed you dearie ~~~~~

there is a huge difference of course between WANTING to be a lap dancer, and HAVING to be one because you are desperate for the money and think it's the only way of getting it.

Hayley if you mean at schools they have proms now lol

Do they still have discos,

Grrr.....I change browser and now the box keeps jumping up and down while I'm trying to type, or at least it does once I've typed enough to have to thingy that goes up and down the side lol

Rose, I'm with you on the male stripper bit.