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registering a child when u aint leagally married b

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Sylvia

Sylvia Report 29 Jul 2010 16:19

i would liketo know how my grandfather could register his children when he wasn't married to the mother at the time of their birth

AnninGlos

AnninGlos Report 29 Jul 2010 16:24

What year are you talking about?

Sylvia

Sylvia Report 29 Jul 2010 16:29

we are talking 1948

AnninGlos

AnninGlos Report 29 Jul 2010 16:33

Yes, I'm sure that anyone could register the birth, Father or Mother.

Sylvia

Sylvia Report 29 Jul 2010 16:33

a little i do know that my gran was married to someone else at the time and that until the early 1970's they didn't get married

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 29 Jul 2010 16:53

Its not unknown for children to be registered as if the parents were married I have some in my tree

Jill 2011 (aka Warrior Princess of Cilla!)

Jill 2011 (aka Warrior Princess of Cilla!) Report 29 Jul 2010 17:08

My grandmother when registering my father's birth claimed that she was married - gave her maiden name and everything. She didn't marry my grandfather until 3 years later.

In short, they lied. (Makes it interesting though doesn't it?)

Jill

Dawnieher3headaches

Dawnieher3headaches Report 29 Jul 2010 17:44

I know today if you arent married as long as father is there child can have his name if married only mother or father has to be there maybe was the same back then but they do seem to of told some good whopper back then and after all they dont ask for proof when registering do they

Bobtanian

Bobtanian Report 29 Jul 2010 17:53

I dont see why there should be a problem for a couple, married, but not necessarily to each other, to register a child that is Theirs!! in the fathers name??
instead of the legal husbands name....
Bob

Jill 2011 (aka Warrior Princess of Cilla!)

Jill 2011 (aka Warrior Princess of Cilla!) Report 30 Jul 2010 16:22

I think you'll find that if the woman is married to a man other than the father - then her husband is deemed, by law, to be the father of the child.

And I suppose it must have been difficult at times, and in perhaps smaller towns or villages, for a woman to be able to lie about the "father" as she may well have been known to the registrar.

Jill

Deanna

Deanna Report 30 Jul 2010 17:03

The child can be registered by the mother and father, but they will not accept the fathers name if he is not there.
It is a simple process.
The marriage, if there is one, can be registered later.
Good luck with the searches.
Deanna X