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Marie

Marie Report 11 Aug 2010 12:02

I would think it common courtesy to reply whenever someone gives you any information it annoys me when people cannot do this, i recently had a reguest for some information ,I opened my tree for them and gave all the information I had theat was 2 weeks ago and the person hasnt bothered to let me know whether or not it was any help or not .i am sure most do but others please note

Rambling

Rambling Report 11 Aug 2010 12:21

As this comes up so regularly there are a few things to consider...

Has the message been read yet?

Could this have been done while on a mobile phone or laptop whilst on holiday with no opportunity to reply ( or data to hand) ?

Could the person want to have time to check all that they know before replying?

might they be spending the last few weeks of the summer holidays with their children/ in the garden/ out for days while the sun shines?

Might they be ill, or depressed...or...heaven forfend have died?

yes it's common courtesy to reply... but maybe there are reasons.. 2 weeks isn't long to wait.... I take the view that generally speaking I have waited 50 odd years to know this or that about ancestors... another few weeks won't kill me :)