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Any Regrets

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~`*`Jude`*`~ Report 13 Dec 2012 10:21

Oops l have put a damper on this thread sorry.

Its held me back but l'm fine:))

jude :-)


~`*`Jude`*`~ Report 11 Dec 2012 19:32

Brian....similar to me re confidence, so many things l still want to do but l'm held back by the past.
Its not something l want to dwell on but its more recently that l have learned more!!! and it aint easy to put it behind me YET. Worse things have happened to me that l have dealt with....but this is difficult!!

Sorry for adding all this on here, but it helps me and thats what counts!!


PS...because of him, l have alpologies to make to a relative:(((


BrianW Report 11 Dec 2012 17:20

spending too much time working and not enough playing and socialising.
gaining confidence in myself too late to fulfil my potential.
plenty of others.


GinN Report 11 Dec 2012 16:01

Regret marrying my first husband in 1974 - only lasted a year.

Best thing I ever did - going on holiday in 1977 and meeting my second husband!


Mauatthecoast Report 11 Dec 2012 13:32

Yes but try not to dwell as cannot rewrite the past....


ButtercupFields Report 11 Dec 2012 13:22

:-D :-D Jean! <3


Jeniwren Report 11 Dec 2012 13:13

My one big regret in life,
Getting married 53 years ago,
Best thing I did,
Getting divorced 36 years ago

Jean xx :-D :-D


~`*`Jude`*`~ Report 11 Dec 2012 10:20

Oh god Yes, not being able to punch my father in the face or even worse when l was in my late 20's....its his fault that myself and my siblings (6 of us) are all in the state we are in now!!!!!

jude :-P :-P :-P


maggiewinchester Report 11 Dec 2012 00:46

No really, they're outshone by the good things in my life :-D


Linda Report 10 Dec 2012 22:48

Yes Speaking before I put head in gear, when I was younger I hurt a lot of people by saying thing before I had stopped to think before I said them.

One or two others has well


Kay???? Report 10 Dec 2012 11:02

Only sorry I didnt do things earlier in life,,,,,,,,but have still reached targets.

Eldrick you was born strange...... :-D :-D ;-)


LaGooner Report 10 Dec 2012 10:59

Loads and loads. But I drew a line under them and moved on :-)

Karen in the desert

Karen in the desert Report 10 Dec 2012 10:46

Not any serious regrets no, though I might have/should have done a few things differently.

Det I'm sure it's not too late to be a Kibbutz volunteer, go for it, don't just leave it on your bucket list :-)
I did it in my twenties, and admit it was a fabulous, fun and educational experience.



Mersey Report 10 Dec 2012 07:00

Yes humungous ones....but at the end of the day I have learnt from them and moved on and made me a stronger and better person :-D :-D.....


LadyScozz Report 10 Dec 2012 05:27

Non, Je ne regrette rien



supercrutch Report 10 Dec 2012 02:14

One massive one, meeting a surgeon who was a butcher and still suffering from what he did 5 years later.

The effects:

Loss of a very god job
Not having been able to push grandson in pram
Not being able to travel
Weight gain through inactivity
Feeling I am spoiling family get togethers because I can't take part in the silliness
Not being able to enjoy walks with my hubby
My huby having to do so much for me personal care wise

Apart from the above not a lot...lolol

*$parkling $andie*

*$parkling $andie* Report 10 Dec 2012 02:02

Just one.

Dad in hosp aged 90.......

Hosp phoned about 4am ,said dad's breathing wasn't too good.
Hubby took the call.
I went to hosp early morning, but dad had already passed away.
I sat with him , holding his hand ,tears flowing .
I'll never know if he needed me there , not to be alone, or whether I could have coped with him slipping away in front of me ,because whilst nurses said it was peaceful...I'll never know.
In my heart I think ,it was peaceful for him , looking at his face it was my dad as I knew him , so loving and no pain etched on his face.

Could I have got there earlier ? Should I have ?
I still question myself.

He is still in my thoughts everyday ..never to be forgotten. He was a gem.


Jean Report 10 Dec 2012 01:06

we cant turn the clock back. i have no regrets, just done what i thought was the right thing to do at that time. life up to now has been good to me.


'Emma' Report 4 Dec 2012 13:38

and then again too few to mention :-D :-D

Emma x

Budgie Rustler

Budgie Rustler Report 4 Dec 2012 13:09

"Regrets"... I`ve had a few ...