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Aled Jones
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Barbra | Report | 22 Nov 2017 16:03 |
Very true .the manager & warehouse man were sacked .my Son got another job & believe you me didn't get bullied again .he does stand up for himself :-) |
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Dermot | Report | 22 Nov 2017 15:14 |
Bullies have no age limits. And silence encourages them to continue the nastiness. |
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Barbra | Report | 22 Nov 2017 14:38 |
when my Son started a driving job he enjoyed it & liked being out & about delivering car parts & warehouse work .this a few years ago .one of the manages didn't like him & was always picking on him about late deliveries petty warehouse things .but he was being set up by another warehouse man .& he left because of bullying .its not only women who are harassed at work my Son was 20 years old .. :-( |
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PricklyHolly | Report | 21 Nov 2017 23:48 |
Barb....... |
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Sharron | Report | 21 Nov 2017 23:33 |
We tolerated all sorts of unpleasant behaviour in the sixties, seventies and eighties because we had no option. There was nowhere to complain and if you did it was your word against the gropers. |
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maggiewinchester | Report | 21 Nov 2017 23:23 |
Just like to say, I love what Aled's mother in law has said: |
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maggiewinchester | Report | 21 Nov 2017 23:18 |
Oh gosh - flashing! |
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supercrutch | Report | 21 Nov 2017 19:32 |
Pondering this - all of us who experienced the 60s and 70s knew men with 'wandering hands'. Their names were passed on in offices and social centres. Does that happen nowadays? |
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Rambling | Report | 21 Nov 2017 19:08 |
No need to delete BarbinSGlos, I'm glad it helped saying it 'out loud' as it were, and you are very brave to have to done so. I'm very sorry that you experienced that, no child should ever have to. |
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supercrutch | Report | 21 Nov 2017 19:02 |
Barb, there is NO doubt that the trauma children suffer is probably the worst kind imaginable. |
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BarbinSGlos | Report | 21 Nov 2017 18:50 |
Nyx, I have deleted my post after your comment. But it did help me to get it down on paper for the first time |
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Sharron | Report | 21 Nov 2017 18:34 |
Victim is the word. They would not pick on somebody they did not think was at some sort of disadvantage to them. |
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Rambling | Report | 21 Nov 2017 17:32 |
I agree with Supercrutch. |
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Sharron | Report | 21 Nov 2017 16:56 |
Exactly. He got away with it and you were traumatized. |
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Sharron | Report | 21 Nov 2017 11:26 |
Sometimes overfamiliarity can cause psychological trauma that never leaves. |
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KathleenBell | Report | 21 Nov 2017 11:15 |
I agree that a lot went on in the 60's and 70's that we just accepted and didn't think of as "abuse" - not that that excuses the behaviour. |
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Bobtanian | Report | 21 Nov 2017 00:59 |
well said Joy.... |
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JoyLouise | Report | 20 Nov 2017 17:02 |
Again, I am with Supercrutch here. |
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Sharron | Report | 19 Nov 2017 19:58 |
We should never have been put in a position to have to tell them to push off. |
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Annx | Report | 19 Nov 2017 19:52 |
I'm with you on this Supercrutch. I bet most women could recount incidents from then. Some men would force you to squeeze past them in doorways, would invade your space that bit too long to try and see down your top. In the cinema a chap sat next to me and my friend and stuck his hand on my friend's knee and was sliding her skirt up. She soon sent him packing by standing up and hitting him in the face hard by swinging her handbag at him. We had a caretaker at work who would stand next to the stairs with glass panelled sides so he could see up your skirt. Some would be too touchy, but most would take the hint if you pushed them away or told them to get lost. It shouldn't have happened, but how many of these women are reporting the men they knew from then, work colleagues etc? I knew far more of them than famous people. |
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