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So things ain’t going so good

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kandj

kandj Report 28 Apr 2022 15:45

I'm thinking about you Shirley, and sending you
best wishes xx

Elizabethofseasons

Elizabethofseasons Report 29 Apr 2022 20:49

Dear Shirley

Lots of love to you.
Elizabeth, EOS
xx

**Ann**

**Ann** Report 30 Apr 2022 19:31

Sending <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 30 Apr 2022 21:02

Thank you all

It’s a worrying time that’s for sure but I will just take all the treatment they offer and hope !

Tenerife Sun

Tenerife Sun Report 1 May 2022 12:54

Difficult times for you Shirley. Keep thinking positive thoughts, I hope all goes well for you. xx

ZZzzz

ZZzzz Report 8 May 2022 23:32

How are things going with you now Shirley, I hope all is good, healing hugs to you.

Tawny

Tawny Report 8 May 2022 23:44

Thinking of you Shirley x

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond Report 9 May 2022 05:07


Shirley, that’s worrying news and I bet 19th May can’t come soon enough for you. I will be thinking lots of positive thoughts for you xx

Lizxx

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond Report 9 May 2022 05:07


Shirley, that’s worrying news and I bet 19th May can’t come soon enough for you. I will be thinking lots of positive thoughts for you xx

Lizxx

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 9 May 2022 07:02

When I said I won’t have chemo and they gave me the 19th my for the scan the oncologist was away for two days . He came back and answered the emails they had sent and discussed it with the scan people and it was agreed to get it done sooner

So I had the PET scan done last Friday the 6th

Results will be available this week and I know the Dr will the discuss it with his team at the weekly patient review and then get back to me

So although glad it’s been done but now very apprehensive on the results and where we go

But am feeling well in myself and getting around the house more and I do think my hair is growing a bit

Was left with a stubble after my daughter shaved it off and this is certainly longer but the bald bits arent sprouting yet

:-D

LindainHerriotCountry

LindainHerriotCountry Report 9 May 2022 09:17

I am pleased that you have had your scan and don’t have to wait so long. The waiting must be the worst thing for you. Once you know, you can just get on with things. <3 <3 <3 <3

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 25 May 2022 15:44

Update

So had the PET scan and saw the oncologist last Thursday

It confirms the node is cancerous . Apparently if it spreads it’s usually sideways but in 2% of cases it goes upwards , mine has gone up!

Was told last time even if it is cancerous we aren’t at the end of the road because there are treatments

But last week it was we can’t operate to remove the node as it too near the main aorta and other organs
We have other chemos but success rate is 5 /10% so unlikely to be successful

We won’t do radiotherapy as unlikely to work!

We will just monitor with scans and if it spread maybe we might zap spread with targeted radiotherapy which I doubt !

So just see your family and enjoy the summer weather!

In other words its terminal but no timeline


Not what we wanted to be told tbh but at least it’s not false hope that we had before

I feel well at the moment and am just going to enjoy each day as it’ comes

Roll out the rose wine too as it’s been some time that I have been able to have a few glasses
;-)

PatinCyprus

PatinCyprus Report 25 May 2022 15:55

<3 <3 <3Shirley

nameslessone

nameslessone Report 25 May 2022 15:56

Oh Shirley!

Time to get that bucket out and make a list <3

Gwyn in Kent

Gwyn in Kent Report 25 May 2022 16:25

<3 Shirley <3

Good that you feel well. I hope that continues.

SuffolkVera

SuffolkVera Report 25 May 2022 16:45

Sending you a (((((hug))))) Shirley <3

I hope you continue to feel well for a long time to come.

Von

Von Report 25 May 2022 17:10

<3 <3 <3 Shirley

LaGooner

LaGooner Report 25 May 2022 19:01

<3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 Shirley

Florence61

Florence61 Report 25 May 2022 19:03

Have a few glasses Shirley and live life to the full

<3 <3 <3
Florence in the hebrides

Fly

Fly Report 25 May 2022 19:12

<3 <3 <3 Shirley