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Detail Report 3 Jan 2014 11:21

My friends name is graham John Hayward born 1977, he also had the last name of robinson, his mums name is Slyvia robinson ( maiden name ) farmer, he is trying to find his father please could anyone help me


ErikaH Report 3 Jan 2014 12:31

Has he asked his mother what his father's name is/was?

When did he last see him?

And where in the world does this refer to?

What has Graham done to try to find the man?


ErikaH Report 3 Jan 2014 12:35

OK..........Graham was born in Essex.

He should purchase a copy of this parents' marriage find out how old his father was...................that would give him a firm basis for his search.

............the marriage was in 1963

Or was his mother's husband not actually his father?


Detail Report 3 Jan 2014 13:23

We believe his fathers name is john hayward and he has a brother Micky or mike hayward, graham only found out he had a different surname to his siblings when he was getting a passport, he has asked his mother but don't thing he has got anywhere with this


Detail Report 3 Jan 2014 13:29

The marriage certificate the father in there is Graham's brother and sister dad and not his dad


Detail Report 3 Jan 2014 14:01

He would be around 57 years old now so if anyone can help us we would be really grateful


PricklyHolly Report 3 Jan 2014 14:31

So born abt 1957.

The problem is, there were thousands of John Haywards born abt without knowing exactly when and where he was born, or any further info about him such as who his parents were? I'm afraid it is like trying to find a needle in a haystack!


Detail Report 3 Jan 2014 15:17

So now I have a middle name and where he was born
John Alexandra hayward born in kent abt 1957 if this helps


Pam Report 3 Jan 2014 16:43

Using there are two registrations for John A. One JQ 1950 Bromley and the other SQ1955 Dartford.


Detail Report 3 Jan 2014 20:27

Thanks Pam I will have a look x


rootgatherer Report 3 Jan 2014 20:30

Middle name more likely to be Alexander. (Alexandra is usually the female form of Alexander)


Detail Report 21 Mar 2014 16:23

hello to everybody

I have since been able to find out john alexander Hayward was born 1955
he also has a sister named carol a Hayward born 1957
and a brother named Michael d Hayward born 1959

I believe the maiden name to be Duncan.

I am trying to find out the were john is now and any of the family
if anyone has any information I would love to see it and any help I can get would be really great many thanks lisa


Detail Report 22 Mar 2014 08:43

Please can anyone help me please


patchem Report 22 Mar 2014 09:22

The problem is that there are lots of men called John A Hayward, and also Michael D Hayward and Carol A Hayward.
John born Kent but his siblings in Essex.
So possible marriages in a large area of South East England, into London, with a very common name.
They do not appear to be on anyone's tree on here.


Detail Report 22 Mar 2014 10:48

thanks!!!!! patchem


Detail Report 26 Apr 2014 12:39

They parents moved to an address in Wickford witch explains
Why John hayward was born in kent and his two siblings were
Born in essex

31 wick lane


Detail Report 13 Aug 2014 09:24

If anyone has any information !!!!!!
No matter how small , I would be really greatful
Cheers lisa

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 13 Aug 2014 10:29

As you know the address in Essex then you must know his parents names surely ??

or am I missing something ??

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 13 Aug 2014 10:34

are his parents Frederick and Margaret??

If so their marriage is on FreeBMD 1948 Dartford . it will give their ages and fathers names on the cert

Was John aware he has a child ??


FAIRTHORN Report 13 Aug 2014 11:28