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I changed mine Fairthorn, I'd added a throwaway remark and it was taken the wrong way :-)

Best I remove it cos this is the 2nd time posters have misunderstood



:-S

Neil that line of Fairthorn's is not in response to you, it is just part of the 'researching' box...you will see under my posts
"Researching:
Fishlock, and the lost Harriet Louisa Whetman. These are my research interests and do not constitute part of any reply I may post on your thread :-) "

some of us regulars put names we are researching, some of us put maybe an amusing remark like Fairthorn's "I am not a complete idiot...some parts are missing"... :-)

Fairthorn why doyou say i am not a complete idiot i do not understand :-(

:-)

Neil
I hear your hurt BUT you arent responsible for your brothers adoption,or for the actions that your parents had to take at the time

Those days were so different to having a child out of wedlock . I know we had neighbours in the 1950,s whose daughter got caught and the gossip was awful for the family .

Most times the daughter was shipped off to a relative out of the area or to a mother and baby home to have their little one . IF the mum was under 21 then her parents made the decisions about whether the baby was kept or not . Most times the girl went away before she "showed" and came back later as if she had been working away

Woolwich is my own area . I lived in Charlton and the gossip if a girl was pregnant wasnt very flattering

Name: Susan M Dunn
Spouse Surname: Webster
Date of Registration: Apr-May-Jun 1964
Registration district: Dartford
Inferred County: Kent

WILL DELETE LATER <<<<<<<<<<<<<

Above sadly fit the data

Looks like 2 family tree entries on Ancestry public family trees

Has anyone suggested to Neil to look under his mother's name?

EDIT I see Rambling Rose suggested it

If "Brian" was searching himself for kin, he would perhaps start by looking for his birth mother

Could there a trail via "Brian's " birth certificate ? ie the address of his mother

"Brian" may have gone on websites & also asked for help.

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EDIT

http://www.ukbirth-adoptionregister.com/search.php

FOUND THIS . have you placed this ? <<<<<<<<<<<<<<

Birth Relative
BIRTH PLACE sidcup kent
SEARCHING FOR brian robert dunn
Adopted persons birth place
woolwich plumstead


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Neil,

You must have signed up to Ancestry at some point and given them your card details,the subs must have been up for renewal or the end of a 14day free trial was at its end,,,,,,,if you dont go on the site and cancel,they think you want to continue and take an auto payment from the card details you gave,they assume you want to become a full time subcriber,,,,,,,,naughty really,,,,,

dont sign up for free trials that want your bank card details,,,,,,,,,it can trap you into something you dont want.

if its free why do they need bank card details.?

Kay.RR.Please believe in me. :-)

Contact them Neil, you should have had a reminder email for renewal, sometimes they go into Spam though.

Neil,

What did you sign up for on the site,? were you on a year or monthy subs,,,,,or did you do a free trial,,,,,,,,,,if you dont go back and cancel your details they will auto take out a years subs,the number to phone them is on the site,,,,,, free call -0800 4049723......Saturdays is---9am to 8 pm.

RR Ancestry have just took unauthorised money ffrom my account :-(

Neil , if you don't remove the swear word someone will report it,

I doubt Ancestry have wiped your account, phone them on
0800 404 97 23

Or Email
[email protected]

For ref, there are comments on the Ancestry FB page that there are some problems with Ancestry at the moment, with an error message appearing...that may be why you can't gain access Neil...

Hi Neil,
O.K.
Just trying to find something that might help, just clutching at straws really.

I have sent you a P.M.

regards

Jean if it were a family friend my Father would have most definitely have told me by now.All I have is all adoption records to name.
Many thanks Neil.X :-)

Hello Neil,

Hope you are O.K.

Can I ask was it a family member who adopted you're brother or maybe a family friend ?

If so can you remember any names ?

regards


You can PM me if you don't want to put names on this thread.
jean

just take your time - go slowly - ask any questions you like

To all the people that have offered help thank you.
AS much as I want and try the web confuses me with basic skills I cant achieve.
I am spending hours on my quest.I do not understand the literacy of the computer world and am struggling with to understand,the basic information given,i am getting lost in word I don't understand. :-(

Thank you all for the support.
Jean as an unmarried couple my mums father would not support them and my fathers family was,not in my mums eyes a place to be.
I have pushed and fought to worship my mums wish.
My fathers belief was that I should never have been told.
I do not no how I new but I new I had a brother and it was this that lead my mother to tell me.
All answers Jean i need not look for.My mums mum committed suicide when i was a year old and my mum died at 54.
Adoption at that day was barbaric with no thought about helping parents or the ongoing devastation it causes.
Things and attitudes have thank god now changed.
My motive is not selfish but only for my brother to know i am looking for him.
There are know answers Jean only life.
Love and respect.Neil.XXX <3