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Sorry i deleted the post by mistake, As i said it's probably testosterone kicking in, When a child try's to enforce their will over siblings, However you and your husband have to be united 100% as he will divide and conquer you both by bullying you.

Dave, i wish it was that easy, last monday he was arrested as he had an argument on msn with a mate, mate said he was coming to the house so hubby went out to send him away.. son came out the house with a knife(my tattie) one..hubby tried to stop him and ended up with a knife wound to his thigh..

sharon

thanx dave but i`m gonna have to go to bed now.. dunno what tomorrow is gonna bring so have to be up bright and early for whatever happens
will check in tomorrow morning

thanx

sharon

Dont really know what advice to give you Sharon.

I think his age probably has a lot to do with it, and no doubt he will think he is fine...nothing wrong with him.. it's alway's everyone else who is wrong etc etc.


Marion

Hi Sharon, Hope you had a good night's sleep, How are you and your Hubby today? From your last message posted it do's seem the lad has a real problem with controlling his anger and i would suggest you seek medical advice a.s.a.p, Maybe your G.P. can prescribe some sort of treatment to supress these outburst's,
I personally still think it is a chemical inbalance within him due to his age and this can be corrected with the correct treatment. Good luck ........Dave.

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Hi Sharon

Shimmer here. Took me a long time to share similar probs, helped when I shared. Son now turned everything round but ............ at the time, couldn't see the woods for the trees.He once said the worst thing I could do was to say nothing, made him think when he had 'hurt' me with words.

Leaving you a hug hun,

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Do hope today is a better day.

xxx Shimmer xxx

morning sharon hows you today

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thanx everyone . i do feel better today, it`s been my first lapse this year so i`ve managed to stay strong for 6 months. i was an absolute wreck for about 18 month and i don`t wanna go there again. SO. Today is a new start again.. Not looking forward to going to the police station next week but will have to keep my chin up and get on with things...
thanx all, it`s nice to know i have people to talk to who will listen and not rant and rave at me..
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well someone from the youth offenders team are coming to the house next friday so hopefully we can make a start on getting the help my lad needs. i don`t think it`s just a teenage thing but i may be wrong, my oldest is the complete opposite, soft as muck. but there you go you never get 2 the same..

sharon

Hi Sharon,

Well at least now the ball is rolling, hope you manage to get the help you need now, chin up, one day this will all be in the past, like the other have said ,you just have to try and look to the end of the tunnel xxx
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thanx sheila
i know one day it will just be a memory but it`s so bloody hard to try and stay strong while trying to control what happens with the little sod and then try to help the older one through all this...

sharon