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Partner of 3yrs has left me 8-(
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 19 Jun 2008 01:34 |
Hi Wendy, hope you are managing to get some sleep. |
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AnnCardiff | Report | 18 Jun 2008 23:11 |
I don't know what to say really - never ever been in that position but reading what Tania has posted, I think it's true and excellent advice - think she's read the situation perfectly, and everyone else who has posted on this thread has had something really valuable to contribute. All I can do is offer you my utter sympathy and hope you are able to find the strength to rise above it - as has been said, no faults seem to lie with you, you've done everything right and he's done everything wrong - your problems are now hers if he's with her - you may end up thanking her!!! Keep posting on here sweetheart, everyone is wishing you well |
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TaniaNZ | Report | 18 Jun 2008 23:01 |
Hi Wendy |
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Glenys the Menace! | Report | 18 Jun 2008 22:53 |
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Lindsey* | Report | 18 Jun 2008 22:34 |
Maybe the last thing he wants to be is on his own? |
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~irishgirl~ | Report | 18 Jun 2008 22:24 |
Oh bless you. It's every woman's worst nightmare. Please think to yourself, maybe your the lucky one. Would you want him back if this is what you get eh. You can do better. |
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{****wendylady****} | Report | 18 Jun 2008 21:23 |
ive done the same once and launched a orniment he brought me a staffordshire bull terrier.... it bounce by his foot.. and launched through the window and smashed it... so i screamed at him... you made me break the window now you fool...the orniment never had a mark on it... i do hope hid wheels fall of his supermarket trolly...what an idiot.... |
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***Julie*Ann***.sprinkling fairydust*** | Report | 18 Jun 2008 21:17 |
let me tell you girl i got a fairy ornament in front garden with arm held on by sticky plaster |
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***Julie*Ann***.sprinkling fairydust*** | Report | 18 Jun 2008 20:59 |
lmao |
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{****wendylady****} | Report | 18 Jun 2008 20:48 |
Im so sorry... that is wicked of me to say that my apologys.... if i offened anyone with saying that... |
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{****wendylady****} | Report | 18 Jun 2008 20:45 |
god it still hurts glenys.... what hell did i do....i was alright just... went and had a long relaxing bath... to get rid of my panda eyes were ive been blarting on and off all day...then my girl told me that....do you know ive never been evil in all my life but... i feel sick with anger....if he is with her... and things are happening nooky wise... i hope to god it fiests up and drops off... |
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Glenys the Menace! | Report | 18 Jun 2008 20:34 |
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{****wendylady****} | Report | 18 Jun 2008 20:27 |
Well he works at the local supermarket and its the corner of my street.... my daughter has just been there and saw him leave with another woman... i did find with this woman whenever we were together shopping... he would say hello and she would be estatic because he said hello... then when i said hello she would just curl her lip up at me and grunt at me.... it seemed she as problem with me and i dont know her.. she lives alone... but i dont know where he his staying as he has no family over here or male friends...well it looks like its truly over...maybe she has taken him in... as a friend would do...he told me once she is alright and he found her pretty.... so maybe i should count my losses... i feel anger now |
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Glenys the Menace! | Report | 18 Jun 2008 19:59 |
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Jean (Monmouth) | Report | 18 Jun 2008 19:55 |
Wendy, never think that you are not good enough for anyone. You may not be right together, but you are always good enough for anyone. No one in this world is better than you , just different. Jean |
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Muffyxx | Report | 18 Jun 2008 19:45 |
Be kind to yourself Wendy. |
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ChrisofWessex | Report | 18 Jun 2008 19:37 |
Whatever you do, do not blame yourself, do not go on a guilt trip. Last time you picked yourself up, dusted down and began again. Perhaps he just had a trantrum and already regrets it, but meantime - talk to yourself, ask yourself what you really want out of life and then take that step - whether it is to try again or go on by yourself. Take care - there are always lovely caring people here when one needs a helping hand or that shoulder. |
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***Julie*Ann***.sprinkling fairydust*** | Report | 18 Jun 2008 19:32 |
wendy dont blame yourself |
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Charlie chuckles | Report | 18 Jun 2008 19:18 |
))))))))hugs((((((((( |
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{****wendylady****} | Report | 18 Jun 2008 19:11 |
AWW thankyou cumbrian caz... such alovely lady....thankyou ladies all this means alot to me i dont feel alone now.... |