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Jackie | Report | 11 Jul 2008 22:55 |
Met a man 24 years ago convinced me he was the greatest thing on earth. Told me he couldnt live without me treated me like a princess for 22 years Waited 8 years gave him his daughter he yearned for she is now 16. Put on weight 2 years ago now treats me like dirt on his shoes has done for the last 2 years. Why I am still the soppy vunerable person who loves to help anyone above themselves, sad I know but why does weight change how a person perceives you please help |
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Silly Sausage | Report | 11 Jul 2008 22:56 |
Nothing to do with your weight...he just takes you for granted.. |
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Glenys the Menace! | Report | 11 Jul 2008 22:58 |
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♥ Kitty the Rubbish Cook ♥ | Report | 11 Jul 2008 22:58 |
Only your husband can truthfully answer that one and you need to make time to have a good long talk and tell him how you feel. |
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~Mama*HOTLIPS* Rambo~ | Report | 11 Jul 2008 23:02 |
Like Hayley said nothing to do with your weight Jackie... try not to do so much for him love, mine tried it a while back so I blew up with him and the kids cause they were as bad told them a few home truths and it worked wonders. |
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Jackie | Report | 11 Jul 2008 23:07 |
Tried talking writing down how I feel he sees it as a weakness. I am me big or small, would love to leave walk away, but have to stay as my daughter deserves her mum |
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♥ Kitty the Rubbish Cook ♥ | Report | 11 Jul 2008 23:09 |
Your daughter deserves a happy Mum, not a sad and lonely one. |
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~Mama*HOTLIPS* Rambo~ | Report | 11 Jul 2008 23:15 |
Jackie if you walk away your daughter will still have her mum and you will still have your daughter no matter what. |
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Jackie | Report | 11 Jul 2008 23:16 |
your right I am now a sad lonely mum I am so lost I just wish I knew how to get the real Jackie back. God I must have depressed every one Iam so sorry |
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Foggy | Report | 11 Jul 2008 23:18 |
You also deserve respect irrespective of your size. |
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Silly Sausage | Report | 11 Jul 2008 23:20 |
Jackie....I have a nasty habit of bottling things up and then....just blow...when I feel I am being taken for granted.... |
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MargarettawasMargot | Report | 12 Jul 2008 07:23 |
Jackie |
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Researching: |
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MargarettawasMargot | Report | 12 Jul 2008 09:15 |
PS |
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Researching: |
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LadyBarbara | Report | 12 Jul 2008 09:32 |
I agee with you Jackie, we promised to love honour and in some cases obey, where does it say in the marriage ceremony that we can't put on a few pounds as we get older. |
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Lin in Sussex | Report | 12 Jul 2008 10:53 |
After many years of marriage and hearing my ex sing " I love you because you're fatand ugly "( to the tune of a Roy Orbison song) I decided that enough was enough !!!! |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 23 Jul 2008 05:23 |
Jackie, do come back and talk to us again, we can make you smile again, all sorts on here, all shapes and sizes and attitudes but we will be there for you when you are down, till you can turn things round. |
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Lin in Sussex | Report | 23 Jul 2008 06:15 |
Agree with everything Liz has said.......... |
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Terry | Report | 23 Jul 2008 06:36 |
Never wait for anything life is just to short to hang around in misery |
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Audrey | Report | 23 Jul 2008 06:43 |
You seem to be hung up on your size - well - do something about that. See your doctor about reducing weight or go to somewhere like Jenny Craig, Go to the gym also. I know it takes courage to make the first move but you will start to like yourself better and get more confidence as you achieve some weight loss and this helps you to keep going. |
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ginqueen | Report | 23 Jul 2008 07:24 |
You should learn to love yourself warts and all, every morning look in the mirror and pick out one thing you like about yourself - I like the shape of my eyebrows this morning (!). |