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Bless you Ann,not having a good time right now, but i will keep strong, Its the way I am,


Love to you and T,

Caz xxx

Thinking of you caz. Be strong!

Ann
Glos xx

Thanks all, I have no ideas how to find out the real truth,


Caz xxxxxxx

just another challenge to cope with big hugs maz

Hi Caz, just seen this. Hope you've been successful. You have to be honest with the kids, even though they're going to hurt about it. We've found a similar thing with our (adopted) daughter.
x

Hi Caz love,

I've PM'd you. Sorry it took so long, I've been the local taxi service!
Maria xxx

Did you get it sorted cazzles? I'm toying with getting some 192 credits but not sure right now if I'll be getting them or TraceSmart. I'm a bit confuddled by it all.

It's a difficult thing to deal with. My family are on the flipside, we would love to see more of my brother's two children but unfortunately it's never been made easy for us and we believe they 'heard things when they were younger that has meant they don't wish to get to know us. It's a real shame when children suffer because of petty adult comments.

*huggles*
Liz

Anymore ideas anyone?

I talked to kids last night. Eldest son was quiet, Josh was trying to be macho but daughter took it very badly, have had a very hard time with her...


Caz xxx

Many thanks Linda, going to check on tips now,


Caz xx

have you tried putting a message on these boards someone might know them? have you tried yell .com for an telephone no if you know the address??? good luck caz another is 192 .comif you email their names & address i will look for you LINDA

Thankyou for a beautiful story Jackie, it breaks your heart when your kids hurt,


Caz xxx

Thanks Marion, it is awful.

Karen, thanks ive put one up,

Mac im so sorry, i hurt for my kids, love to you,

Lindy, thanks so much,


Caz xxx

Wish I could help you Caz, so am sending a hug instead.

(((((((((( HUGS ))))))))))

Lindy xx

Aww,thats a shame. Must be hard for families when there is a marriage break up.
I hope it all works out for him :))

Marion

Please, has anyone got access to 192 and can look for me?


Caz xxx

Thanks carrie,


My older 3 kids loved their grandparents, then they were cut off by their dad and his nasty wife.Never taken to visit, but tonight Josh said he really wanted contact,


Caz xxx

Thanks Bob, Carrie, Broggy, Kemp,


My ex lives in the same town, he has changed his phone number but i feel like going round, my kids will be hurt, they were kept out of his whole families life, Im so angry,


Caz xx

Hi Caz.

Has someone already found the record for you? I've got findmypast if you need a lookup.

If he has died, Kemp's right - you have to tell them as honestly, but as gently of course, as you can. You'll find the right words.

Maria xxx

I wasnt told when either of mine died,
grandad went first, Nan went just over a year later........was told when it was too late.......
Bob

Tell them straight hun .....you know how .............

But you must be sure first ...if its the same gran dad send for the death certificate ............