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Sad news yesterday evening..
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 30 Jan 2010 04:25 |
I am glad that Joyce is out of pain and worry now, and reunited with her husband. I like to think of her with him and my parents and aunt and uncle, three cousins together with their spouses, and catching up with a good chat lol My Mum doing the catering as always! |
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Crystalcat | Report | 29 Jan 2010 19:36 |
Hello Liz |
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*** Mummo *** | Report | 29 Jan 2010 19:04 |
So sorry to hear your sad news, x |
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Jean (Monmouth) | Report | 29 Jan 2010 19:01 |
So sad that you felt not all was being done that could be done for this lady. Dont blame yourself, you are not of an age where you should be expected to do anything. We are always filled with regrets that we could have made more effort, but circumstances have to be considered. Be glad for her that she is with her beloved husband at last. |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 29 Jan 2010 16:02 |
Marilyn, what a kind thought. Thanks everyone for your messages. I feel so sad that I never got to visit her and also that I hadn't made more effort to make contact so we could have had a little chat. I know from what the d.i.l. said before Christmas that Joyce wasn't being cared for well and wonder if the son bothered to sort it out, or if the fact she was not bathed and not given her meals and medication properly for her diabetes etc helped contribute to her death, seems her kidneys started to shut down first when back in hospital and maybe if the diabetes hadn't been managed properly that contributed. I could shake the son and d.i.l.(and the grandsons in their 20's) - they could have done more for her in her last lonely months but I dare not say too much, I think they knew last time we spoke that I wasn't impressed with them. |
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R.B. | Report | 29 Jan 2010 09:39 |
Morning Liz, |
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GRMarilyn | Report | 29 Jan 2010 09:31 |
Hi ,... Liz just read your sad news. |
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MaryinSpain | Report | 29 Jan 2010 09:27 |
So sorry to hear your sad news Liz - I did not see this thread in August - must have been up the mountain. Joyce is now at peace and reunited with her husband. RIP Joyce |
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Carole | Report | 29 Jan 2010 09:17 |
Liz I'm so sorry for your loss. As you know I nearly lost my aunt before Christmas and so know how upset I was, you must be feeling worse than I was then. It leaves a big gap doesn't it. Bless Joyce xx |
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YorkshireCaz | Report | 29 Jan 2010 08:51 |
Liz I am so sorry to hear the sad news, she will be reunited with her husband and family now. R.I.P. Joyce. |
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ForeverMystified | Report | 29 Jan 2010 06:13 |
Liz so sorry to hear of your sad news, may she RIP with her husband and family who have gone before. |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 29 Jan 2010 05:56 |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 29 Jan 2010 00:54 |
Sorry about duplicate posting but I had a real problem altering the title of the thread and posting at all. |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 29 Jan 2010 00:50 |
Yesterday evening I received a call from the d.i.l. of my Dad's cousin, to hear that sadly Joyce has died in hospital, on Thursday morning. She was 89, would have been 90 in June. |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 3 Sep 2009 04:10 |
Brian, he is her only son, there are two grandsons who hardly seem to visit her even at home, just across town. I don't understand them either, bet they will be there with their hands out when the time comes to sell the house etc. |
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Brian(i) | Report | 2 Sep 2009 22:54 |
My children visited every day whilst I was in hospital with a stroke and that meant a 35 mile journey each way. I can't understand Joyce's children. |
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Jean (Monmouth) | Report | 2 Sep 2009 19:58 |
As you will see on the carers thread, it can be frustrating giving daily care, and people DO treat their nearest and dearest much more impatientely than they would strangers. By that , I mean your cousin may not be so pleasant to her som and d.i.l. She may also have had this infection for some time and that would have changed her attitude. Been ther with UTI frequently and was not nice to know! Best wishes to her. |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 2 Sep 2009 19:08 |
I rang Joyce's son the other evening, he says she is still in hospital but he doesn't know much, there is never anyone there to speak to! Fgs, why doesn't he ask to see the consultant, it's two weeks now and he doesn't work so could easily pop in to see him and find out what's going on. More tests are on the cards apparently and also possibly injections to help her knee so that she can get about more. If they get her out to sit in the chair she can't get back in bed herself, which is the reason she has been sleeping in the recliner chair for months, at home! |
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Helen1959 | Report | 22 Aug 2009 06:57 |
Hello Liz, |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 22 Aug 2009 02:53 |
I called Joyce's son yesteday evening, he said they had been to see her in the hospital and she was feeling a bit better, apparently she had been moaning about the food and the noise so he said that meant she was better than she had been. He and his wife went out to get something Joyce wanted and missed the doctor's visit so are none the wiser about her problems, I do feel they are very impatient with her and have the selfish streak that I have seen in some of our family members. I know they have been busy preparing the room for the decorator to go in today and Monday - apparently poor old Ernest had painted and repainted over wallpaper so it took a while to strip. Her son said he didn't have a steamer, why on earth didn't he hire one, too mean perhaps? I get the feeling he is a bit careful with money, he said he didn't know whether to recarpet or not, or just put down some temporary foam back carpet tiles he had in case Joyce doesn't come home again, seems she has mentioned going to live permanently in a home and the doctors have said they aren't sure of her regaining much mobility. I do hope she can at least go back for a little while to see her room and sort out some of her things. A lot was packed away when the heating was done in May, so it will be a big job to sort things out and move her out for ever and put the house up for sale. |