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GoldenGirl1 Report 4 Dec 2012 11:56

in your life, yes i know we all have them. Things i wish i'd said, places i
should have visited etc.

Anything really life changing if you had the chance to do it all over again?
Or maybe something small that would have pleased someone or given
you that feel good factor.

Emma x


+++DetEcTive+++ Report 4 Dec 2012 12:06

Applying to train as a Librarian after A levels - books, research, Heaven!

The only other thing was living as a volunteer on a Kibbutz. That was probably more of a pipe-dream than anything else.

Over all, things have worked out reasonable well, so can't complain


JustJohn Report 4 Dec 2012 12:11

Changing my avatar so that no one can see me mooning, Emma :-( :-( :-(


Paula+ Report 4 Dec 2012 12:18

Life has been good to me, I have no real regrets, I would just have done some things differently.


GoldenGirl1 Report 4 Dec 2012 12:32

Det my daughter like you wanted to go and live in a Kibbutz,
we really thought at one point that she and her friend would
volunteer but it never happened.

John theres' still time :-D

Paula like me i have also had a good life but if i knew then what
I know now I would have pushed myself further career wise. :-)

Emma x


Eldrick Report 4 Dec 2012 12:42

If, as a child, i knew what i know now, i would have been a really strange child.........

:-D :-D


GoldenGirl1 Report 4 Dec 2012 12:50

LOL.... you never disappoint Eldrick.

If you knew then what you know now you would have been
a mystic... one of your favourite people :-D :-D :-D :-D :-D

Emma x

Budgie Rustler

Budgie Rustler Report 4 Dec 2012 13:09

"Regrets"... I`ve had a few ...


GoldenGirl1 Report 4 Dec 2012 13:38

and then again too few to mention :-D :-D

Emma x


Jean Report 10 Dec 2012 01:06

we cant turn the clock back. i have no regrets, just done what i thought was the right thing to do at that time. life up to now has been good to me.

*$parkling $andie*

*$parkling $andie* Report 10 Dec 2012 02:02

Just one.

Dad in hosp aged 90.......

Hosp phoned about 4am ,said dad's breathing wasn't too good.
Hubby took the call.
I went to hosp early morning, but dad had already passed away.
I sat with him , holding his hand ,tears flowing .
I'll never know if he needed me there , not to be alone, or whether I could have coped with him slipping away in front of me ,because whilst nurses said it was peaceful...I'll never know.
In my heart I think ,it was peaceful for him , looking at his face it was my dad as I knew him , so loving and no pain etched on his face.

Could I have got there earlier ? Should I have ?
I still question myself.

He is still in my thoughts everyday ..never to be forgotten. He was a gem.


supercrutch Report 10 Dec 2012 02:14

One massive one, meeting a surgeon who was a butcher and still suffering from what he did 5 years later.

The effects:

Loss of a very god job
Not having been able to push grandson in pram
Not being able to travel
Weight gain through inactivity
Feeling I am spoiling family get togethers because I can't take part in the silliness
Not being able to enjoy walks with my hubby
My huby having to do so much for me personal care wise

Apart from the above not a lot...lolol


LadyScozz Report 10 Dec 2012 05:27

Non, Je ne regrette rien



Mersey Report 10 Dec 2012 07:00

Yes humungous ones....but at the end of the day I have learnt from them and moved on and made me a stronger and better person :-D :-D.....

Karen in the desert

Karen in the desert Report 10 Dec 2012 10:46

Not any serious regrets no, though I might have/should have done a few things differently.

Det I'm sure it's not too late to be a Kibbutz volunteer, go for it, don't just leave it on your bucket list :-)
I did it in my twenties, and admit it was a fabulous, fun and educational experience.



LaGooner Report 10 Dec 2012 10:59

Loads and loads. But I drew a line under them and moved on :-)


Kay???? Report 10 Dec 2012 11:02

Only sorry I didnt do things earlier in life,,,,,,,,but have still reached targets.

Eldrick you was born strange...... :-D :-D ;-)


Linda Report 10 Dec 2012 22:48

Yes Speaking before I put head in gear, when I was younger I hurt a lot of people by saying thing before I had stopped to think before I said them.

One or two others has well


maggiewinchester Report 11 Dec 2012 00:46

No really, they're outshone by the good things in my life :-D


~`*`Jude`*`~ Report 11 Dec 2012 10:20

Oh god Yes, not being able to punch my father in the face or even worse when l was in my late 20's....its his fault that myself and my siblings (6 of us) are all in the state we are in now!!!!!

jude :-P :-P :-P