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Ahhh

I have just seen another registration for you that does have an 'S'

I will send it to you privately

just noticed by my name i have a number 2 . would that represent my adoption??

Thats a good tip about about putting a name in brackets thanks and think i will do that.
its also interesting about the s on the birth records. i have noticed i do have 2 entries and my parents didnt register me until the new year as i was born in nov!
i think i am gonna look at ordering my birth certificates just so i can see the details on them.
it certainly is interesting tracing family history.
:-)

I applied a couple of months ago for a full birth certificate. I was surprised to see that my adoption by my stepfather was added to it.

The adoption was in February 1965 when I was 17. It was so that my step father could have his rightful name at my wedding when I got married in the May.

I have been trying to find a half brother (of my birth father) but no agencies will help me because of this adoption!! It was for only 3 months and old enough to get married.
Now there isn't much chance of ever finding him, because of this "adoption".
I now wish I had said that I didn't want to be adopted!!
:-(

Back in 1997 I went with my neice to register her baby...she wasn't married to the father so baby had to be registered in her name only as he wasn't there (split up)

They got back together shortly afterwards and had another child which is registered in the fathers name.

The child born 1997 has always been known by her fathers name but there is no amendment showing for her in the records (double entry).....she wasn't adopted by him, as he was her father...sure I was told they added his name at a later date....which they must have done otherwise her birth cert would be useless to apply for driving licence, passport ect

So like you, this person does not exist on the birth records

In that case once the page has been transcribed.a 'Postem' on freebmd is more than relevant :-)

Are we talking hypothetically Mel, or were you hoping to make contact with (say) relatives of your birth father or other as yet unknown extended family members?

If you wanted help tracing relatives still alive, then post on the 'Find Living Relatives' board

Melanies birth reg does not have an 's' and would not be on freebmd as yet...but will be in the not to distant future, I would think

OK - assuming that the person looking for you wasn't a member of GR......

Firstly they'd be wise to look at the actual image of the gro index to see your birth entry. In many cases there is the letter S either on the image, or incorporated in the numbering. That indicates that an adoption had take place.

Only you as an adoptee can access your adoption records - other people looking for you during your lifetime would need to register with the Adoption Contact Register or any later equivalent and hope that you had done so as well.
https://www.gov.uk/adoption-records/the-adoption-contact-register

If you wanted to make the chances of being found easier, see if your birth entry is on http://freebmd.rootsweb.com/cgi/search.pl . If it is then add a brief 'postem' to explain that you were adopted by your mother's husband and were know before your marriage as Mel xx

To protect your parent's privacy, it probably wouldn't be a good idea to give their first names unless they unfortunately are deceased. Similarly don't give too much away about yourself!

If you put yourself in your tree in your birth name also your parents names anyone looking for you should find you if they know those details

You could also add your adopted name in brackets...that's how I have seen some listed on here

Or you could add yourself in your adopted name birth name in brackets....its up to you

sorry i seem to be confusing people.
i was born richardson ,which i have found birth record on genes reunited.
what i was wondering was if i would be able to find when i was adopted by my mum new husband? i only ask this because if anyone ever wanted to trace me and didnt realise my birth name how would they trace me.
i have my marriage certificate but i was wondering if it would show up bmd records because technically there is no record birth record of me as melanie cooper which is how ive been known all my life !!
i hope this makes sense!!
sorry again like i say iam new to this and slowly learning how to find records.

i know who bio father is but not all his family.

jax i will look at those sites x

You always were one of the sensible ones on here ..
xxx <3
But Melanie, if you want to access your adoption records , contact adult social services in your area

Maybe Melanie would like to explain what she is looking for? then we can help

Whether just wants to find the record listed (which for adoption cert no) or is she is after obtaining it? which I would have thought she would have anyway?

If she wants to go back further, then she should find those online either on freebmd up to 1970ish or one of the other sites like GR, FMP or Ancestry for records up to 2005

Hello Jax
No not wrong at all but if she does not possess her adoptive Birth Cert she is the only person who can apply for it now..
Also adoption record ie adoptive birth certs are only available to OP they won't show up on BMD records
I might be wrong but I think she is trying to trace her family prior to her adoption?
Not sure about marriage records in this instance
I think Melanie wants to access her adoption records

I have read it that Melanie was adopted by her mothers new husband when she remarried?

If so she would know who her mother was

Maybe I am wrong?

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hi iam new to this and wondering is there a why you can adoption records. i was adopted but only when my mother re married. ive found original birth record but not when i changed names may not find my marriage record!!
plus how do you find actual wedding certificates etc so i can trace family.
many thanks...
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Ok .. I think what you are saying is that you have found your original birth reg on BMD Your new adoptive birth cert issued at the time is available to you only
If you don't have this already .you can apply for this personally but it is not on the register of BMD's
You have every right to find out about your family prior to adoption.
Google adoption and there is loads of info to help you trace your history but be aware that it might be quite distressing and you should have some qualified support before embarking on this.
Hope this helps
xx

Is there a reason you need to see your marriage cert? do you not have it anymore?

think i may also need to have a visit to local record office!
thanks everyone

I've heard that bmds more recent than 2006 are never going to be put online

Hi Gwyn,
Its so long since I've used the Records office! I know when I used to use it, they had BMD's as recent a 3 months.
Still, their records are more recent than the internet.

Maggie,
As far as I know there are very few places which hold such recent records.

Most Record Offices hold GRO index of births, deaths and marriages up to about 1992, but only the following have very recent ones.

Birmingham Central Library
Bridgend Local and Family History Centre
City of Westminster Archives Centre
Manchester City Library
Newcastle City Library
Plymouth Central Library
The British Library