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Gay Marriage. (Question)
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Karen in the desert | Report | 9 Apr 2014 22:44 |
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Island | Report | 9 Apr 2014 08:57 |
Ah, Frederick, there you are! :-D |
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Barbara | Report | 8 Apr 2014 23:34 |
My daughter and son in law are married but each has kept the name they had. |
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Frederick | Report | 8 Apr 2014 20:30 |
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Island | Report | 8 Apr 2014 18:17 |
Frederick? |
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SylviaInCanada | Report | 8 Apr 2014 17:35 |
Mrs actually comes from Mistress .......... which at one time was the honorific given to a woman who had reached the age of maturity. |
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ZZzzz | Report | 8 Apr 2014 13:38 |
Probably dates back to when women were owned and considered property by their husbands so others would know that she is already taken, after all men were never owned by anyone so no need to indicate that they are married, IMHO anyway. |
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Karen in the desert | Report | 8 Apr 2014 12:32 |
I don't agree with the tradition of taking the husband's name upon marriage because I believe that the name we were given at birth is our given name, and should remain with us until death, and that children should carry the name of their father OR mother. |
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+++DetEcTive+++ | Report | 8 Apr 2014 12:01 |
We asked our dil-to-be what name would she use |
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Island | Report | 8 Apr 2014 11:37 |
Graham, if someone is called 'Mr Smith', what would you assume? |
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Island | Report | 8 Apr 2014 11:36 |
I'm not keen on Ms either, DazedC. As men cease to by 'master' by the time they are all of, say, 10 years old why isn't the same curtesy afforded to women? |
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DazedConfused | Report | 8 Apr 2014 11:12 |
I hated being labelled Mrs. when I married and turned to the awful Ms. that way no-one knew whether or not I was married. |
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Island | Report | 8 Apr 2014 11:06 |
It's bad enough that women are still labelled as 'married' or 'single' by the out of date use of Mrs and Miss without singling out some as 'lesbian' by giving them another title. |
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Graham | Report | 8 Apr 2014 10:23 |
If your called Mrs Smith most people would assume you are married to Mr Smith. If Miss Jones married Miss Smith and both decided to use the name Smith that could make them both Mrs Smith. This could lead to some confusion. Perhaps an alternative title might be in order. Or would lesbians feel offended by that? |
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GlasgowLass | Report | 8 Apr 2014 08:38 |
my daughter attended a lesbian wedding at the weekend...... neither women are changing their name. |
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Bobtanian | Report | 30 Mar 2014 19:01 |
A.Smith and Wesson has a kinda ring to it! ;-) |
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DazedConfused | Report | 30 Mar 2014 14:08 |
I worked with a lad who married an only child and they took her surname so that her surname would not die out within their branch of the family. |
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Merlin | Report | 30 Mar 2014 14:03 |
They could of course name themselves after the TV Programme "Alias Smith and Jones" :-D |
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ZZzzz | Report | 30 Mar 2014 13:56 |
Indeed there isn't island, in my family one changed his name to his 2nd wife's first married name so that any children they have they will all have the same surname. |
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Island | Report | 30 Mar 2014 13:28 |
There's no legal obligation for anyone to change their name when marrying. |