General Chat

Ann I am so sorry you have had such a terrible and worrying time., I do hope your OH will continue on the road to recovery. We all need a shoulder to cry on from time to time. It really does help to get things off your chest and share your concerns. Remember that you are just as important as anyone else on these boards, and there is always someone here to offer support. <3

Hello Anne
Sorry to hear you have been having such a rotten time and hope things will improve for you and your OH soon

When it all gets a bit too much, come and have a moan on the boards. They'll be plenty of people on here to lend a sympathetic ear and send you a cyber hug.

Thinking of you
Vera

I hope you have made sure you are getting all the support you are ENTITLED to.and be prepared to be amazed by the kindness on here.

Anne,
I just wanted to say that your problems are every bit as important as anyone else's.

The GR community are a fantastic bunch of people, and if you are in need, I know that they will go above and beyond to offer anyone help and support in a time of need.
Theres always enough help here to go round.

Thinking of you too
Anne

Dear Another Ann in Glos

Hello

All of us on here have been through very difficult times at one point or another.

It is so good that you felt able to come on the boards and they helped you.

Having someone to talk to is often a safety valve.

Plus, we all can offer practical advice.


For now, be kind to yourself.

Take very gentle care
My very best wishes to you and your husband.
Love Elizabeth,
xx

Anne, sorry to hear about your problems. Hope your OH will continue on the road to recovery.

We are all here for you when you need someone to talk to.

Take care of yourself too.

Sending my very best wishes to both you and your husband.

Love Sallie. xx

AnotherAnn ~ so sorry to hear of this, I hope your OH improves every day, and you can let out that big breath you took <3

My OH was sick last year, I got lots of support from lovely people here.

Take care of yourself too. <3 <3

Hello Anne.
Sorry to hear you and your OH have had it so rough this past six months. Now you have posted on here it will be easier for you to pour your heart out and everyone will listen to you. Talking about your worries and problems is better than bottling them all up. I hope you are both getting lots of help and things start to improve for you both. Take care and talk about it.
Sylvia x

Hi Anne

It's a shame you didn't feel able to offload to us all when you needed support but I'm glad you have told us now of your situation and I hope your o.h. will continue to improve in health so things won't be so difficult for you both.

There's always someone around to listen, I know as I have needed an ear sometimes.

Take care, onwards and upwards....

Lizx

Anne you could never be a nuisance so, in future just PM me <3

Sorry to hear your news Anne and wish your OH health improves every day. But as everyone else has said there is always someone on here who will listten -I for one know that having had lots of support over the years from loosing our dog to loosing my mom and other bits inbetween too.
Please ddo not bottle your emotions up it is far better to air them - it makes you feel better.

Take care of yourself as well as your OH

Love Mary xx

So sorry to hear about your problem Anne

It must be heartbreaking for you.

Thinking of you- Jem :-) :-)

Good Morning Anne....hope you are looking today ? How is your OH this morning and how are you??
Get a nice hot drink and a piece of cake and put your feelings down on here. l've started doing the games on the quizzes/games thread....alot of chat on there too,especially Sparkling Sandies thread:)

Will look in later off out in a mo.

jude x

ANOTHER ANN
HOPE YOUR OH IS FEELING A BIT BETTER THIS AFTERNOON
LOVE DIZZ

Been thinking of you today, AnotherAnninGlos, and hoping you and your OH are doing OK.... :-)
xx

Thankyou for asking today, I have just managed to get onto the pc. I have had a good day today because OH has only just decided to wake up. (pc is in bedroom) Its the antibotics he is on and the pain killers so I let him sleep some days. He will watch the news for a bit then potter up the garden. Its the first time we planted some veg. when he was in hospital all he kepted saying is when I get out of here I might plant some veg. I got son just to dig up a narrow strip and OH planted sprouts, caulis, runner beans and tomatoe plants. On the days I let him sleep. Its getting the balance right on how much I let him sleep It does me good as well just to sit and read without having to worry about him. I thought I would be spending a lot of time looking after OH this year and in the winter I bought a swing seat with a shade for in the garden, (half price) all my kids laughed at me and said why you got that for its winter. They are not laughing now when I can just go and sit in the garden with my book and not worry about dragging other garden chairs into the shade.

Hope everyone else is doing good today.
Anne x

Anne...they say sleep is one of the best healers, but it's nice to hear that he is enjoying his garden also.

I have also got a garden swing which I love and never sit anywhere else when I am outdoors.

Let's hope we have a good summer :-D

Anne
I'm sorry to hear of your troubles, but it's good that you feel support here.

How lovely that your OH had an interest in the garden, even when he couldn't get out there and I'm pleased that it's a place of calm for you now.

Look after yourself.

Gwyn

Hello AnotherAnneinGlos:)

Good to see you posting again.:-)
What a brilliant idea getting the seat in the winter, it was all settled and sorted ready for now.
We're waiting for our decking to start, it should have been 30th June this Mon, but they have put it back to 14th July...once thats done l can buy plants and seating/table etc...can't wait, not sure there will be room for a swing seat though :-|

Yep they say sleep is a good healer:) Hope you have loads of lovely veggies:)

jude xx

Hi Anne.
It is nice to hear you can sit in the garden on your swing seat and read. I hope you get lots of warm days to get out there when your OH is sleeping. I do hope things get better for you both very soon. <3