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I have just received a phone call and a txt.

to say a friend has passed away, they didn't do it nicely they commited suicide .

why

Not a clue Uzzi.

I guess it's never straightforward.

Sorry to hear of your loss x

ty Muffy

sorry shocked, can't understand why

Sorry to hear your news Uzzi . Chin up x

Starry
starry night
paint your palette blue and grey

look out on a summer's day
with eyes that know the
darkness in my soul.
Shadows on the hills
sketch the trees and the daffodils

catch the breeze and the winter chills

in colors on the snowy linen land.
And now I understand what you tried to say to me

how you suffered for your sanity
how you tried to set them free.
They would not listen
they did not know how

perhaps they'll listen now.

Starry
starry night
flaming flo'rs that brightly blaze

swirling clouds in violet haze reflect in
Vincent's eyes of China blue.
Colors changing hue
morning fields of amber grain

weathered faces lined in pain
are soothed beneath the artist's
loving hand.
And now I understand what you tried to say to me

how you suffered for your sanity
how you tried to set them free.
perhaps they'll listen now.

For they could not love you
but still your love was true

and when no hope was left in sight on that starry
starry night.
You took your life
as lovers often do;
But I could have told you
Vincent
this world was never
meant for one
as beautiful as you.

Rest in Peace my friend
May today win the war against the demons you had.
may today be the begining of your new and happy life.
I wish you well in it
just wish you had stopped by to say goodbye :-)

Sorry Uzzi, that's awful for those left behind.

Sue xx

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Claire xxxx

TY Sue,

i am so sorry uzzi thinking of you xxx

So sorry Uzzi,I know how you feel,my older son topped himself 20yrs ago,and I still feel so ANGRY at him.

hi hun my cous did the same .thoughts are with you.xxx

Uzzi, I am sorry for the loss of your friend, what a shock for you and a dreadful way to die, everyone will have the memory every Eastertime and with no answers, it hurts so much more. May your friend rest in peace now.

Two men I knew from young did the same thing for different reasons and at different times, several years back, and a colleague of other half went to the loo at work and hanged himself, dreadful for his workmates to find him and devastating for his wife and family, no note, no explanation, no reason that anyone could tell.
My cousin's daughter did it at Uni in London, many years ago now, she had been dragged into one of these religious cults and her parents thought she had left them and got her life back, an only child she drank bleach and threw herself from an upstairs window, leaving them bereft.

Such a waste of life

Lizxx

Oh Uzzi, I am so sorry ... I too lost a friend who appeared happy yet ... well, he is still sorely missed. He left behind a wife and 3 beautiful children.

Leaving you a hug ((hug)) and praying that your friend is now at peace. Thinking too of his family and friends.

xxx Shimms xxx

I am so sorry to hear of your sad loss, Uzzi.
It's a terrible thing to lose someone, and to learn that they took their own life makes it all the more hurtful.
I hope your friend is now finally at peace, having left their turmoil behind them.

I am sending you BIG (((((((HUGS)))))).

K xxx

Sorry xx

Uzzi I am so sorry to read this, be gentle with yourself and with them. It's hard to go on sometimes, and more than likely there is nothing you could have 'done' that would have helped even if they had come to you. We all walk our own lonely road.

Rose xx (((hugs)))

:(( Sorry for all left behind.
They must have had a reason in their own mind. .so sad.

Marion

Sorry to hear your news Uzzi. How awful:(

x

So sorry to hear your news :o((

{{{HUGS}}} for you & all those on this thread who have lost someone this way xx