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Sorry to say this Sharron but you say you are ignoring her as you did her other capers but you are not as it is bothering you enough to keep speaking about it, maybe its time to move on from the past hurt then maybe she will go.

(((((hugs))))))

It means I am not giving in to her capers any more now than I ever did.I grew up with the ever present"Don't forget me!".lived around it when it had flesh am certainly not going to be affected by it now it hasn't.
These things happen with years between them.The last must have been six years ago.Long enough to have had another television in between that needs replacing.

Snap Pink:) Bond nice to see humour !
Poor Sharron, she really has got to you :(

Thanks Pink and Wild Cat, glad to be of service. At least I am of some use lol.

Welcome Bond lol
Hi Jax

Wish you luck Sharron, im off thread hopping 'tag' Bond lol

Can I just ask Sharron because I need some more information to ascertain what has really happened here?Who actually drilled the holes for the wall bracket for your television. Was it you by any chance? lol


tag Wild Cat.

No it was my dad,he couldn't get much right either.

lol Bond thats wicked.
Sharron ignore him, right i gone 'tag' back

Jimmy Bond,,,Yes this is this one,,

l@@k at my name,,,,???? ha ha,,,

Back in 20 mins

The bracket didn't fall.Just the television off the platform which has the lip on the front.The bracket is still there holding up a television.

Um,I was late replying because the computer froze.

Now that is strange. Do you really think it is her Sharron?

I think when we pass on we see everything with clarity and understanding, perhaps she sees what she did and how she behaved and is trying to tell you she is watching over you now......xx

Maybe you should try talking to her - off-load everything and explain to her why you feel like you do. I was told that people do change in the spiritual world.... and usually realise the mistakes they have made and try to say sorry, by whatever means they can. And it might be a good way for you to finally let go and move on.

Relax love..... she has absolutely no power over you anymore.

Deanna X

Thank you to everybody who has given me serious advice.It wasn't really what I was expecting.Although they are a bit irritating I find the happenings amusing and not at all alarming and only thought to share them with you out of interest,especially as I had just picked up the breadmaker.
Every time we make some sort of change at home that lets light and air in to where she had kept junk and rubbish we remark upon how much she would have disliked it and have a little chuckle.
We had newly decorated the bedroom they had shared with fresh paint and a fitted carpet,not something she would have countenanced, when Dad had his stroke in there.That,I'm afraid,we put down to her being so cross she hit him over the head!

hi sharron, from someone who knows all about strange things happening in the house, i think you need to put your feeling to rest, because if not she will have won. and maybe like others have said, she may be trying to ask your forgiveness.why not sit down and write her a letter, put all your feelings in the letter. put the letter away, and then there may come a day you will be feeling more forgiving.thats the day you read the letter, and then get rid of it.
all the best to you

Am I alone in thinking if this happened to me I'd move!! *shudders*

I agree with writing a letter to vent all your feelings.........I do that if I'm upset about something, then tear the letter up the next day.

Thank you but really I don't need to do all these things.I am happy with my feelings.The only reason I ever mentioned the relationship on here was because I had found an article on narcissistic mothers which had finally put everything into context and hoped it could help others.As for her haunting me,well I hope you can understand that it amuses me.It is most likely a set of co-incidences,just like my cat Idi dying on the same day as Idi Amin.