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Kaz i know what you mean i have to remind him of everything he was never organised... and if i didnt do it it would never get done....like i think it could be a stalling... so yes i will give him time to think things through... thankyou to all who has help me in this time.... god bless you all from the bottom of my heart...

wendy, dont ever think like that, we all have problems, this forum is big enough to acommodate everyone and have everyone supporting each other, give and recieve and make new friends....
take care, remember were here for you, kaz xxxx

Wendy, sweetheart, I will read this properly when I have sorted kids tea, but just now I want to send you a very big hug,

Caz xxx

AWW thankyou cumbrian caz... such alovely lady....thankyou ladies all this means alot to me i dont feel alone now....

))))))))hugs(((((((((
carol xxx

wendy dont blame yourself
give him time, just make the most of time apart for now, go treat yourself if you can maybe something in expensive, or have hair done, you konw something to cheer you up,
show him you are tough, sometimes t his is what it takes for them to see,
dont put yourself down,

bin there got the tee shirt and my OH is trying to repair the broken heart he broke, he knows that and i try to keep my nightmares to myself most of the time i accept his efforts,

wot im trying to say is give it time wendy
be brave, be strong, dry those tears ,
well dont let him see them if you bump into him
hugs to you

Whatever you do, do not blame yourself, do not go on a guilt trip. Last time you picked yourself up, dusted down and began again. Perhaps he just had a trantrum and already regrets it, but meantime - talk to yourself, ask yourself what you really want out of life and then take that step - whether it is to try again or go on by yourself. Take care - there are always lovely caring people here when one needs a helping hand or that shoulder.

Be kind to yourself Wendy.

Sending you (((hugs))) xx

Wendy, never think that you are not good enough for anyone. You may not be right together, but you are always good enough for anyone. No one in this world is better than you , just different. Jean

Wendy, hi, I really feel for you at the moment. But listen to your Mum; she said what I feel.
It smacks of a hasty action, and that he needs to grow up a bit.
Don't give him anything that is yours, and keep your self-respect. You owe it to yourself.
Keep us posted, love.
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Well he works at the local supermarket and its the corner of my street.... my daughter has just been there and saw him leave with another woman... i did find with this woman whenever we were together shopping... he would say hello and she would be estatic because he said hello... then when i said hello she would just curl her lip up at me and grunt at me.... it seemed she as problem with me and i dont know her.. she lives alone... but i dont know where he his staying as he has no family over here or male friends...well it looks like its truly over...maybe she has taken him in... as a friend would do...he told me once she is alright and he found her pretty.... so maybe i should count my losses... i feel anger now

Good girl. Don't forget, it's HIS loss, not yours!

(Oh - and if he's done this to you, he'll do the same to her, mark my words .............)
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god it still hurts glenys.... what hell did i do....i was alright just... went and had a long relaxing bath... to get rid of my panda eyes were ive been blarting on and off all day...then my girl told me that....do you know ive never been evil in all my life but... i feel sick with anger....if he is with her... and things are happening nooky wise... i hope to god it fiests up and drops off...

Im so sorry... that is wicked of me to say that my apologys.... if i offened anyone with saying that...

lmao
wendy that more like it girl
get mad
get even

dont appologise we not offended
like glenys says your mams right

let me tell you girl i got a fairy ornament in front garden with arm held on by sticky plaster

cos she was handy to launch holding her legs at OH as he ws reversing of drive one night after row over an indescretion, our son came up behind me as i launched fairy and moved my arm over to she landed on grass and not car windscreen,
OH admitted he was scared for the first time ever

ive done the same once and launched a orniment he brought me a staffordshire bull terrier.... it bounce by his foot.. and launched through the window and smashed it... so i screamed at him... you made me break the window now you fool...the orniment never had a mark on it... i do hope hid wheels fall of his supermarket trolly...what an idiot....

Oh bless you. It's every woman's worst nightmare. Please think to yourself, maybe your the lucky one. Would you want him back if this is what you get eh. You can do better.

Maybe the last thing he wants to be is on his own?
And the argument over something trivial is him not knowing how to break up with you nicely.

Take control of the situation, pack his stuff in black bags and put them outside, demand your keys back , maybe he has a history of doing this, and put it down to experience !

You deserve someone better.

Wendy, you're bound to be hurting love. You've done nothing wrong, and you know it.
Listen to all the advice here, especially Lindsey's second paragraph. :-))
Good luck.
(((BIG HUG)))
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