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He moves out tomorrow...

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Tina-Marie Report 31 Jul 2008 22:08

12 weeks ago my world fell apart when I found out the man I was totally devoted to was having an affair with a 'so called' friend. Many of you have been here supporting me through what has been an unbelieveable hateful journey.

He moves out tomorrow, taking the 'attitude' with him, to his mother's. More lies, he will be moving in with Bitch Brown Teeth asap.

I am still numb and still really don't know what has hit me, but feel able to cope now with a positive attitude for the future although He will be back every weekend to finish the house, still not in a saleable condition , and I don't want to deal with that aspect yet.

I would like to thank everyone for the continuing support I have had, always a shoulder to cry on, I would not feel as strong as this without you. MANY, MANY THANKS.

Tina x x x


Julie Report 31 Jul 2008 22:10

Awwww Tina....

So glad you're still thinking so positively. I'm glad I was able to help in my little way.

You'll be ok, this is the begining of the rest of your life......n a better one it will be.

You know where I am if you want me. :o)

Love n hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

*Helen S

*Helen S Report 31 Jul 2008 22:12

I know it's hard, I've been through similar, but you will look back and thank your lucky stars.
All the best


Jane Report 31 Jul 2008 22:13

Keep your pecker up Tina,you sound as though you are strong enough to deal with it.


AnninGlos Report 31 Jul 2008 22:13

Tina, best wishes for the start of the rest of your life. It will be easier for you once he has moved out as you can start building your new life.

Be strong and wave him goodbye with a smile or a shrug, or don't even bother to be there when he goes.

We are all still here for you.



Muffyxx Report 31 Jul 2008 22:14

Take care Tuna hon.

Onwards and upwards xx


MaggyfromWestYorkshire Report 31 Jul 2008 22:14

Was only wondering about you last night Tina. Hadn't seen you on here for a while.

Glad you're still trying to stay positive and as Jules says, I too will be here if you need a friend.

The rest of your life begins here!!


♥**♥Straykitten♥**♥ Report 31 Jul 2008 22:14

tina were allllllllllll here if you need us hun

im glad your starting to look psoitive at it

your gona be ok babes

luv n big (((((((((hugs))))))))


*Helen S

*Helen S Report 31 Jul 2008 22:16

Could you have 'see you later alligator' playing when he goes, just to let him know how unimportant he is? lol
Joking aside, life goes on, and will be better.

Pat from Wesham

Pat from Wesham Report 31 Jul 2008 22:21

You deserve better Tina

Look to the future love


X Lairy- Fairy

X Lairy- Fairy Report 31 Jul 2008 22:22

Aww Tina
We are all here for you
take care

(¯`*•.¸*Karen on the Coast*(¯`*•.¸

(¯`*•.¸*Karen on the Coast*(¯`*•.¸ Report 31 Jul 2008 22:23

Good Luck for the future......i'm sure things will get better for you,


Karen x


ann Report 31 Jul 2008 22:23

Tina,I am sure you will have the last laugh.If he can do it to you then she is next on the list hehe.Its just a matter of time.My daughters boyfriends mum did not have a clue about her hubby playing away as her brother had just died and she was grieving.He had done a lot behind her back and when she found out she had to go bankrupt for all his fraudlent ways.As she still loved him although by then he was living with the girlfriend she accepted the bankrupt and i went to court with her.It was so awful.She then was homeless and council could not help her out as they said she had made herself homeless.Eighteen months on his girlfriend has left him and although she has not bothered getting a new man she has a new job a new home and a new life.He now has nothing,no home no job and no money.Things can only get better for you Tina.Hope to meet you at the Chelmsford meet. Annie

*Helen S

*Helen S Report 31 Jul 2008 22:25

Tina, you're free and she is lumberd with an unfaithful man. I know who's the winner.


Eeyore13 Report 31 Jul 2008 22:40

Here's to the beginning of the rest of your life-may it be long,happy & prosperous. :)


CMD Report 31 Jul 2008 22:44

Dear Tina,,
sorry you have had to go through such a bad time..

Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and enjoy your life....
learn from the experience, and dont let it stop yourself from enjoying the rest of your life.....
we are a long time dead......
cmd xxxx

Joy Kentish Maid

Joy Kentish Maid Report 31 Jul 2008 22:45

Big ( hug ) for you, Tina / Tuna.

Hope to see you in London.

Sally Moonchild

Sally Moonchild Report 31 Jul 2008 22:47

Helen is right, I would never trust a man who had so badly treated his partner.......not good at all for any sort of relationship...... you are well rid, believe me..... you deserve much better than this......x


maggiewinchester Report 31 Jul 2008 22:52

Hi Tina
Shame he has to come back to finish the house - but it's to your advantage!!
Been there - got the teeshirt (I'm no longer with w*nker) LOL
As others have said - and I told my 'friend' when she did much the same as yours has done - leopards don't change their spots!!
They married and, yes I met every girlfriend he had while married to 'her' LOL

Now he's the other end of the country - with someone else!!!!

Hold on in there girl - there's a whole new life ahead!!



Kay???? Report 31 Jul 2008 22:53

Cheers Tina,,fill your glass,,wont be easy but think of that house when its all finished,,plus hes enslaved at weekends to gettting it saleable,,,,,,,~~