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Sad news yesterday evening..
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 19 Aug 2009 02:33 |
of my late Dad's cousin Joyce, who was 89 in June, who was planning to go into respite care today while her home was redecorated after having new central heating earlier in the year. She got herself in a state about going and was already unwell. I rang last evening to wish her luck and her son answered the phone, she was rushed into hospital in the early hours of Monday morning, with a possible uti but might be other problems. She had already said she didn't know if she was going to be able to cope any longer living alone (her hubby died a year ago after going into care with Alzheimers) and now I think this will be the final straw altho the son and d.i.l. are going ahead with the decorating and recarpeting etc. I hope it will inspire her to fight on and get back home, she is such a wealth of info about Dad's family, and I have been trying to arrange to visit her, staying with a cousin a few miles from her in Banbury. It would be so sad if she has to give up her home without reaping the benefit of spending all that money on heating and decorating etc, she was telling me that the new wallpaper was £12+ a roll, bless her, when I spoke to her last week. |
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Brian(i) | Report | 19 Aug 2009 07:25 |
I send special positive healing thoughts. |
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LindainBerkshire1736004 | Report | 19 Aug 2009 08:06 |
Thinking of your "cousin" Liz and hope she is well enough to return to her home once it has been decorated for her, and that she gets to enjoy the work being done. |
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dutch | Report | 19 Aug 2009 08:25 |
Sending postive thoughts for Joyce and hope she is home soon |
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PollyPoppet | Report | 19 Aug 2009 08:49 |
sending positive thougts and prayers that she will be home soon x |
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GRMarilyn | Report | 19 Aug 2009 09:11 |
Hi Liz, |
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Sheila | Report | 19 Aug 2009 10:02 |
Sending her positive thoughts, hope she is soon on the mend, and back in her own home xxx |
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*** Mummo *** | Report | 19 Aug 2009 10:14 |
Hope all goes well for your Dads Cousin. |
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~`*`Jude`*`~ | Report | 19 Aug 2009 11:06 |
Hello Liz...positive thoughts on the way to your Dads cousin:o)) |
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SpanishEyes | Report | 19 Aug 2009 11:23 |
Liz |
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Helen1959 | Report | 19 Aug 2009 11:44 |
Liz, |
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Sallie | Report | 19 Aug 2009 18:10 |
Hello Liz, |
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Debbie K | Report | 19 Aug 2009 18:34 |
Wishing your Dads Cousin Joyce a fast recovery |
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YorkshireCaz | Report | 19 Aug 2009 19:03 |
Oh Liz, sorry to hear about your dad's cousin. I'm sending lots of positive thoughts that she will be home soon. |
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Elizabethofseasons | Report | 19 Aug 2009 20:13 |
Dear Purple |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 20 Aug 2009 02:43 |
Thank you all, I am hoping she is fighting back. The daughter in law is a bit negative and says she hasn't a lot of patience when she visits the old lady at home, nor is the son, as the old lady is demanding and not appreciative. I suppose familiarity can breed contempt but she is always so pleased when I phone and says thank you for phoning, thank you for thinking of me, so it's strange to hear a different side to her. My parents were always very close with her and her husband as they were good friends with my Dad's favourite sister so when Mum and Dad went to stay with his sis, the six of them would go out together. |
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Grabagran | Report | 20 Aug 2009 02:52 |
Sending postitive thoughts Liz, and hope she fights to get well, and see her lovely decorated home. |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 22 Aug 2009 02:53 |
I called Joyce's son yesteday evening, he said they had been to see her in the hospital and she was feeling a bit better, apparently she had been moaning about the food and the noise so he said that meant she was better than she had been. He and his wife went out to get something Joyce wanted and missed the doctor's visit so are none the wiser about her problems, I do feel they are very impatient with her and have the selfish streak that I have seen in some of our family members. I know they have been busy preparing the room for the decorator to go in today and Monday - apparently poor old Ernest had painted and repainted over wallpaper so it took a while to strip. Her son said he didn't have a steamer, why on earth didn't he hire one, too mean perhaps? I get the feeling he is a bit careful with money, he said he didn't know whether to recarpet or not, or just put down some temporary foam back carpet tiles he had in case Joyce doesn't come home again, seems she has mentioned going to live permanently in a home and the doctors have said they aren't sure of her regaining much mobility. I do hope she can at least go back for a little while to see her room and sort out some of her things. A lot was packed away when the heating was done in May, so it will be a big job to sort things out and move her out for ever and put the house up for sale. |
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Helen1959 | Report | 22 Aug 2009 06:57 |
Hello Liz, |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 2 Sep 2009 19:08 |
I rang Joyce's son the other evening, he says she is still in hospital but he doesn't know much, there is never anyone there to speak to! Fgs, why doesn't he ask to see the consultant, it's two weeks now and he doesn't work so could easily pop in to see him and find out what's going on. More tests are on the cards apparently and also possibly injections to help her knee so that she can get about more. If they get her out to sit in the chair she can't get back in bed herself, which is the reason she has been sleeping in the recliner chair for months, at home! |