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thinking about SRS's ? thread ..here is one of
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Rambling | Report | 29 Jan 2010 20:34 |
life's unanswerables ( to me anyway) . |
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TeresaW | Report | 29 Jan 2010 20:36 |
The same as the length of time the deep grief of bereavement period is different. Some are able to come to terms with things faster than others. We're all different, and react in different ways to the same situation. |
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Annina | Report | 29 Jan 2010 20:37 |
I would have thought, that if they get over it quickly, then they were not all that in love to start with. |
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(¯`*•.¸JUPITER JOY AND HER CRYSTAL BALLS(¯`*•.¸ | Report | 29 Jan 2010 20:38 |
part of our make-up i think.my mate could fall in love one day and dump the guy the next.amazing |
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Kay???? | Report | 29 Jan 2010 20:39 |
Self confidence and acceptance to get on with life.....memories aint no good clinging to when they aint moving you forward........ |
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Rambling | Report | 29 Jan 2010 20:41 |
I've always considered bereavement as different really Teresa... because although the person has gone, you haven't lost the feeling that they love you and vice versa... but I yes we do all take things differently |
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TeresaW | Report | 29 Jan 2010 20:42 |
I dont' agree with that Annina. When my stepfather died, my mum was a broken woman, but she's the sort to pick herself up, brush herself down and get on with it. Within four months, she was off travelling through Italy on her own. |
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Susan10146857 | Report | 29 Jan 2010 20:43 |
Stop being so clever TW.....tis 'cos'....no other reason :-))) |
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TeresaW | Report | 29 Jan 2010 20:46 |
Ah Rose, well in that case, I'll use Mum as an example again. She was broken hearted when my dad found another woman, worse her best friend. She was humiliated when she realised everyone else knew about it, but not her. She was hurt when it all turned violent, and she attempted suicide a couple of times.....but then she picked herself up, dusted herself down and got on with it, once the divorce came through. |
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Rambling | Report | 29 Jan 2010 20:47 |
I do think that there is a difference between accepting something is over and getting on with life ... ( that doesn't preclude still loving the person , just means you have faced it and know that you have to do other things)... and 'being 'over' someone'... in terms of moving on to someone else... |
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TeresaW | Report | 29 Jan 2010 20:47 |
Yes Susan wiv numbers |
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Muffyxx | Report | 29 Jan 2010 20:47 |
Despite being very happily married now I have to say I've never got over some of things that have happened in previous relationships. |
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Rambling | Report | 29 Jan 2010 20:47 |
Susan ! Write the book! :)) |
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TeresaW | Report | 29 Jan 2010 20:49 |
*quickly comes back in to say...* |
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Muffyxx | Report | 29 Jan 2010 20:52 |
To me getting over something is where you are at when it doesn't hurt to think about it anymore xx |
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TeresaW | Report | 29 Jan 2010 21:03 |
Which comes down to acceptance really doesn't it? There's nothing you can do to change it....lol |
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Rambling | Report | 29 Jan 2010 21:03 |
maybeee.......... |
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Susan10146857 | Report | 29 Jan 2010 21:21 |
The trouble with some boxes Muffy Is......they open up of their own accord and the other person won't let them be closed...therefore...neither does the main person........tis just a game in the end methinks.....no winners...but a game non the less. |
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Muffyxx | Report | 29 Jan 2010 21:23 |
Yeah it's not so easy to handle when the box opens by itself Susan I do agree there xx |
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Susan10146857 | Report | 29 Jan 2010 21:32 |
I think....cant be certain though....it may be easier if children aren't involved. |
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