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Sharron

Sharron Report 14 May 2008 21:20

Sally,this is an enormous help.When it was all happening Iused to wish I had somebody whocould laugh with me about the rubbish she came out with.That would have eased the pain considerably.
Gail is incredible to have dealt with it so well,all power to her I say.
Seeing it all written down helped considerably,in fact I feel that I may have lost a lot of my unhappy memories and no longer need to revisit them to find some sort of explanation.It would be lovely to think other people had achieved something similar.

JustJean

JustJean Report 14 May 2008 21:32

Add another one to the list Sharon, thank you for this thread, it made me see things in new light,

Jean x

Sally Moonchild

Sally Moonchild Report 14 May 2008 21:33

.......xxx for all of you.....

Redharissa

Redharissa Report 15 May 2008 12:32

There is an interesting article on this subject in today's Times, entitled "My mother hated all women"

http://tinyurl.com/59r3ry

Sharron

Sharron Report 15 May 2008 16:45

Thank you so much Tracey.Have just read it,short and succinct but let us hope it is another step toward getting this tragedy generally acknowledged.

Sharron

Sharron Report 16 May 2008 00:36

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Sally Moonchild

Sally Moonchild Report 16 May 2008 04:03

Thank you Sharron, it was a two way street...

It only came out because I was devastated over the sudden loss of my Mum, and she said she felt that way about her departed Dad, but couldn't feel love for her Mother.......and it all came out.....

......we helped each other in different ways, and I am going out to lunch with her next week....she is so lovely.....

Sharron

Sharron Report 20 May 2008 23:59

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Carole

Carole Report 21 May 2008 08:37

Going for one of my counselling sesions this morning. I feel guilty thinking it's cos of mum I'm like this. At least the counselling doesn't bring it all back, it's about looking forward. And giving me hope of a normal life

GinaS

GinaS Report 22 May 2008 09:30

Carole you have made a huge step forward by seeking the guidance of a Counsellor.
It is about you now and building your self esteem.
The best of times await you.
(((((((Hugs)))))))

TaniaNZ

TaniaNZ Report 25 May 2008 21:32

nudge

TaniaNZ

TaniaNZ Report 25 May 2008 22:44

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TaniaNZ

TaniaNZ Report 26 May 2008 10:40

can we please keep this up for those who may need it

TaniaNZ

TaniaNZ Report 2 Jun 2008 00:01

nudge for sharron

Luckylainey

Luckylainey Report 2 Jun 2008 01:09

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Carole

Carole Report 2 Jun 2008 07:26

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Sharron

Sharron Report 2 Jun 2008 09:25

Thank you for the nudges.I don't like to nudge it myself because"You conceited little b****r,what makes you think other people are going to want to blah,blah,blah!"
I really have had a huge effect from reading that article.Certain stresses that I must have had for fifty years seem to have gone.Well,at last I have an explanation now and I feel that I never really knew my mother,just the personality disorder.
Let us hope that others can find some sort of peace from it too.

Julie

Julie Report 2 Jun 2008 10:12




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Sharron

Sharron Report 28 Jul 2008 19:51

I thought I would just resurrect this in case it was any use to anybody.

Frances in Norwich

Frances in Norwich Report 28 Jul 2008 20:53

I have been looking for this thread, thanks for nudging it Sharron.


Frances